Engagement party invitations
The first thing anybody receives about the wedding, even though the wedding is nowhere near decided.
$65
Your details set by hand, usually back the same day. $145 to rebuild it in your own colours.
An engagement party invitation arrives before almost any wedding decision has been made, and yet it is the first signal guests get about what the wedding might be like. That is a lot of weight for a card sent three months after a proposal.
My advice is usually to keep it deliberately open. A palette and a typeface you love, without committing to a motif or a theme you may not want in eighteen months. If you later want the wedding stationery to relate to it, there is something to build on. If you change direction entirely, nothing has been promised.
The practical thing these carry is the guest-list problem. Engagement parties are frequently larger and less formal than the wedding will be, and some guests at the engagement will not be invited to the wedding. That is normal and nobody says it out loud, but it is worth being aware of when the invitation goes out.
What changes for this one
Establish a palette and a typeface without committing to a wedding theme. Both names get equal weight, which sounds obvious and is the thing traditional templates most often get wrong.
When to send
Four to six weeks, and typically two to four months after the proposal, once the excitement has settled into an actual date.
Colours that work
Warm and open. Bone, blush, soft gold, or ink and cream. Nothing so specific that it commits the wedding.
Questions people ask about engagement invitations
Does it have to match the wedding?
No, and it usually cannot, because most couples have not chosen the wedding look yet. Pick a palette and a typeface you love now. If they still feel right later, the wedding stationery can grow out of them.
Some engagement guests are not invited to the wedding. Is that a problem?
It is extremely common and nobody addresses it on the card. The one thing to avoid is any wording implying a wedding invitation is coming, which is where hurt feelings actually start.
Whose names go first?
Whichever way you like, and modern practice puts them on the same line with equal weight. The old convention of leading with one name is one of the things templates still quietly enforce.
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How to have this made
Custom invitation design
Designed from nothing for one event. No template underneath.
From $285
Save the date design
The first thing anyone sees. Sets the tone for everything after.
From $185
Day-of event paper
Menus, place cards, table numbers, programs and signage.
From $95
Start with a First Look
$45 for one finished concept designed for your event, back in three days. It comes off whatever you book, and if you do not love it you keep the file and owe nothing.