Friendsgiving invitations
Nobody has ever been confused about what Friendsgiving is. What they need is to know what to bring.
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Your details set by hand, usually back the same day. $145 to rebuild it in your own colours.
Friendsgiving is a potluck with a theme, and the invitation is really a logistics document wearing a nice outfit. The host is cooking one big thing, usually the turkey, and eight other people are filling in around it. Every version of this that goes wrong goes wrong the same way: everybody was told to bring a dish, and four of them brought dessert.
The invitations that work assign by category, on the card. Sides, dessert, bread, wine, something to start. A guest reading "bring a side" knows exactly what to do and does not have to text anybody. A guest reading "bring a dish to share" has to decide, and the decision most people make under uncertainty is to bring something safe, which is why you get four pies.
The other detail worth printing is the timing shape of the day, because Friendsgiving is usually longer and looser than a dinner party. When to arrive, roughly when food happens, and whether people are welcome to stay after. It is the difference between guests hovering awkwardly in the kitchen at three and a room that fills up the way you pictured.
What changes for this one
A dedicated block for the dish assignments, ideally with a line each guest can see themselves in. Warm autumn palette without the cartoon turkeys, since Friendsgiving skews to people in their twenties and thirties hosting their first proper dinner. Digital works particularly well here because the assignments often change in the final week.
When to send
Three to four weeks out. Friendsgiving is almost always on the weekend before or after Thanksgiving itself, and those two weekends fill up fast because everybody is holding one. Earlier is genuinely better than later.
Colours that work
Burnt orange and bone, deep olive with cream, or brown paper and black type. Autumn colours that read as a dinner rather than as a school display.
Questions people ask about friendsgiving invitations
How do we assign dishes without being bossy?
Assign by category, not by dish. "Bring a side" or "bring something sweet" gives people room to cook what they are good at while guaranteeing a balanced table.
Should the invitation be digital?
For this one, usually yes. Details shift in the last week and a digital invitation can be updated. It also collects replies, which is what you need for a headcount.
What if people have dietary restrictions?
Add a line asking guests to say when they reply. It is much easier to plan around three answers in advance than to discover them when the food is on the table.
Can you do a matching menu card?
Yes. A menu card at a Friendsgiving is a nice touch precisely because it is unexpected at a potluck, and it credits who made what.
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How to have this made
Digital and paperless invitations
Designed to be texted, emailed or posted. Not an Evite template.
From $225
Day-of event paper
Menus, place cards, table numbers, programs and signage.
From $95
Custom invitation design
Designed from nothing for one event. No template underneath.
From $285
Start with a First Look
$45 for one finished concept designed for your event, back in three days. It comes off whatever you book, and if you do not love it you keep the file and owe nothing.